Cuffing season is here and there’s no better time to explore your deepest desires than while you are enjoying some serious new relationship energy (NRE). Couples, both new and old, looking to spice up their cold-weather bedroom experience, don’t have to run out and find someone for a threesome you can easily dip your toes in the waters of new sexual experiences with sex toys for couples. There are a number of couple’s sex toy options on the market that can take you and your boo on the sexual adventure of a lifetime. From vibrators that turn your vanilla nights into a hot toddy evening delights to dildos and lube that ensure an exciting orgasmic romp, I’ve put together a list of the best sex toys for couples who want to try something new or enhance the great sex they are already having.
Whether you’re interested in dipping your toe in the water with some light BDSM, giving LOCKtober a try, or just adding a little variety to your current sexy play sessions, I’ve found something for you. New couples, couples who have been together for a long time, and even couples living long distance will find something on my list of best sex toys for couples below!
Your Guide to The Best Sex Toys For Couples
Explore All Your Desires with 24 Sex Toy Advent Calendar by Womanizer & Lovehoney
This bad boy comes at the top of my list of best sex toys for couples. You don’t have to wait until December 1st to break into this Advent calendar by the legendary Womanizer and Lovehoney! It contains 24 sex toys that allow you to try everything from butt play to bondage and blindfolding. You can find the full description of this advent calendar here.
Play Suggestion: Take turns opening this calendar 1 day at a time each morning. The person who opens gets to plan the evening play session.
Currently 60% Off! $199 ($169 with my special code EXPLORES15)
Tease Him With the Verge Vibrating Perineum Stimulator By We-Vibe
The Verge looks like a cock ring but stirs up his entire package. Best of all, it can be controlled remotely with an app. Slip this vibrator for men and people with penises around his cock and balls and place the vibrating tip on his perineum and watch him worship you like the goddess you are. You control his pleasure and yours too. The Verge keeps him hard longer and you get to enjoy the vibes almost as much as he does during sex.
Play suggestion: Make some popcorn, put your favorite show on the TV and the Verge on him, and make him squirm until you are done with your favorite episode. He’ll be ready to devour you when you give him permission! There’s a reason the Verge made my list of the best sex toys for couples!
Cost $129 (Enjoy 15% off with Code EXPLORES15)
Experience Your First Sex Machine Sex with Thruster
Thruster is home of the build-your-own Thruster. The Thruster Prime is an award-winning, build-your-own, self-thrusting vibrator that provides the power of a full-sized sex machine in the palm of your hand (or your partner’s). The Thrusters come in all shapes and sizes so you can make them look exactly how you want. A
Cost: Thrusters start as low as $150. You get 30% off with my code EXPLORES30
Experience Simultaneous Orgasms with NŌS Vibrating Cock Ring by Fun Factory
This cock ring is a dream sex toy for couples looking to enjoy mutual orgasms. I have written a full review here and watch my review below. This baby promises the possibility of simultaneous orgasms and makes penetrative sex incredible. He will love how easily it glides on and holds firm while delivering strong vibes to his shaft. She will love how it stays in place and the prongs hit and hold her clit perfectly while sending vibrations that take her to climax with each pump. This is the kind of Mother’s Day gift that truly keeps on giving.
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Explore Anal Extasy Fun Factory’s Next-Level Sex
This sex toy set gives couples the opportunity to explore with one of the best cock rings on the market while also exploring butt play! This set is heavily discounted and you can get it now for just $119.
Explore Restraint with Lovehoney Sweet Restraint Recycled Couple’s 5 Bondage Kit
This is easily one of the best beginner couples sex toy bondage kits. If you are ready to try dipping your toes in the water with some 50 Shades of Gray play, but not quite up for taking the full plunge into BDSM, start with this 5-piece set that includes a leash, blindfold, ankle and wrist restraints, and ball gag, all made from recycled materials.
Cost: $74.99 but you get 15% off with my special code (EXPLORES15)
What I Like: This set is made with soft velcro restraints which offer a quick release when needed. Perfect for beginner bondage play.
Explore Male Chastity with the DOMINIX Deluxe Chastity Cock Cage 3.5 Inch
If you haven’t explored male chastity, now is the time to do it. A couple’s intimate activity that is quickly becoming more popular, male chastity involved locking your lover’s cock in a cage. He wears the cage and you hold the key. You can read my full guide to male chastity here and a guide to the right cage here. This cage stars more spirals than a slinky, you can sandwich his sausage in solid steel, sealing him in an unsatiated state.
What I love about it: This baby made my list of best sex toys for couples because of its sleek look and the fact that it is easy to get on and off. Its lock is super simple and reduces confusion for those who are new to the kink.
It Costs $59.99 (15% off with code EXPLORES15)
Try Swinging Sex with the Purple Reins Sex Sling
Of all the best sex toys for couples, this sex sling promised to bring back some of that good weather fun. Forget hitting the park for a good swing set, you’ll be flying high on endorphins and oxytocin when you give this hammock-style swing a try. It’s ultra-padded for supreme comfort and fully adjustable for the perfect height and angle. It makes trying new positions and switching things up fun.
Cost: $169.99 You can get it for 15% off with my code EXPLORES15
Dabble in Impact Play with this Luxury Spanking Paddle Purple Hearts
Is someone curious about spanking? Well go ahead and give them what they want! This is one of the best sex toys for couples who want to try their hand at impact play. It’s super affordable, cute, and if they like it, it might just leave a couple hearts on their ass.
Cost: $19.99 (Save 15% when you use my special code at check out EXPLORES15)
Try Mutual Masturbation with The Date Night Set
Take your foreplay to the next level. The Date Night set brings you powerful, blended orgasms for two with rabbit vibrator Nova 2 and vibrating penis ring Pivot. This exclusive gift set is for making the most of foreplay and drawing out pleasure all night long. The perfect pairing for exploring both you and your partner’s needs and desires. This is one of the best sex toys for couples interested in trying mutual masturbation…that will likely turn into bangin sex!
Cost: $199 (15% off with code: EXPLORES30)
Melt into Massage with DARK + SEXY Massage Candle By Seagrape
This candle not only sets the mood for the evening it allows you to give one of the most sensual massages you will ever share. The wax turns into luscious massage oil that acts more like body butter and doesn’t absorb too quickly. It will leave her skin feeling supple and soft and the rest of her in the mood for love.
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Try Discrete Public Play with We-Vibe Moxie +
This is one of the best toys for couples who want to dip their toes into public playtime OR who want to play when they are apart. Moxie nestles comfortably and securely in underwear for secret, on-the-go fun, held in place with a magnetic clip. Use Moxie with our We-Connect app to send whisper-quiet teasing vibrations, whenever and wherever you (or your partner) may be.
Cost: $139 (15% off with code EXPLORES15)
Try Simultaneous Control! Tease Us Set (Moxie & Bond)
Vibrate together…in public or private. Tease Us is a set of app-controlled wearable vibrators with something for every couple. Subtly tease and tantalize wherever you go with vibrating stimulation ring Bond and powerful panty vibe Moxie. Customize the collection to your needs: also available as two Moxies or two Bonds. This is one of the best sex toys for couples looking to experiment with some discrete public excitement!
Cost: Currently 20% Off at $229
Try Long Distance Sex with We-Vi be Sync 2Experience
Just because can’t be with your babe, doesn’t mean you can’t have sex with them. This baby offers both clit and internal stimulation at the same time! We-Vibe Sync 2 fits snugly to her body for hands-free clitoral and G-spot stimulation. The vibrations can be controlled by a remote or an app, which allows partners to please the wearer of these devices from any distance. One of the things I love about this device’s app is that the free We-Vibe app allows you to use Touch mode for real-time control at your fingertips. This can also be worn during sex simulating the ever-so-taboo DVP, which allows both partners to enjoy the vibes!
Cost: $159 ( Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% Off)
Experience Hands-Free & Long Distance Clit Play with We-Vibe Melt
This is one of the best sex toys for couples who need a lot of clit play to get her to the big O. If you haven’t experienced a toy that provides clit suction technology then you haven’t lived! Melt was developed to allow couples to fully experience the intense orgasms of Pleasure Air technology, which creates the clit sucking sensation that she will be raving about forever. The slim shape lets Melt slip between partners during sex, enhancing intimacy with precision clitoral stimulation. The shape of the melt makes it perfect for use in almost every position and with the free We-Connect app you can play and share control of Melt from anywhere and access Melt’s full range of intensity settings. It’s time to get kinky!
Cost: $149 (Code EXPLORES 15 for 15% Off)
Try Harness-Free Sex with Double the Pleasure with SHARE
This is one of the best sex toys for couples who are looking for pleasure beyond the strap-on experience. This double dildo offers the wearer G-spot stimulation while the receiver enjoys every thrust. It can also be worn with a harness which makes it super versatile!
Cost: $105.99 (Save 20% when you use my special code at check out SELS20)
Explore Pegging with HARNESS JOQUE by Fun Factory
This is one of the best sex toys for couples who are interested in trying pegging for the first or 100th time. This harness fits like a glove, is figure-flattering, and makes the wearer feel super sexy. It’s easy to get on, just adjust it to your size and then pull it on and off. It features pockets above and below the o-ring for bullet vibes which is fun for everyone. It’s perfect for an intro to pegging but also works beautifully with a double dildo.
Cost: $104(Save 20% when you use my special code at check out SELS20)
Elevate His Oral Experience with Fun Factory’s Manta Vibrating Stroker
This stroker makes giving a blow job and hand job easier than ever. Even better, you are going to blow his mind. But that’s not the only thing that’s about to be blown. This baby turns his cock into a giant vibrating dildo. You can read my full review here.
Watch my review below. The Manta is only $139. But you can get it for less with my code!
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Try Sex with Metal with CAPO Vibrating Stainless Steel Dildo
This sexy stainless steel dildo sends vibrations shivering up and down her entire body. There is no other toy like it. The Capo brings a bit of a BDSM feel to sex and masturbation. The design is purposely shaped for vaginal pleasure with its perfect shape and weighted metal dildo feel. The powerful steel vibrator comes in a gift box set that includes a 316 stainless steel dildo, an ultra-strong bullet vibe that fits inside the metal dildo, an easy-reach handle, a retention cap, and a charger for magnetic USB charging.
Cost: $119 (30% Off with Code EXPLORES30)
Try Playing with the Mighty Hammer Fantasy Vibrator and Dildo
Whether you want to be him or fuck him, Thor’s the man this fun vibe has me thinking about. It looks like a toy or part of a costume but it makes you cum like a luxury sex toy. Voila is a fun brand that’s making sex play discrete and exciting for couples everywhere. Grab Thor’s Hammer and see if you can wield it’s power too!
Cost: $44.99 (30% off with Code EXPLORES30)
Mix it Up with the Winter 2022 Holiday Sex Toy Gift Box
Look why settle for one sex toy when you can get a gift sext that has three of the best sex toys for couples all bundled in one? This luxury gift set is on sale AND you can get and additional 30% off when you use my code EXPLORES30! This set includes:
L’acier vibrating metal dildo, Capo
Lipstick discreet travel vibrator from Voila
Lubricant for sex toys
Prime series Thruster sex toy, Jackie with red top and red bottom