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Locker Room Talk: Top Sex Toys for Women

Women’s Sexuality: Sex Toys, Orgasms & Equality- Oh My!

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Today we are talking about two of my favorite things–women’s sexuality and TOYS! I love seeing dramatic shifts in areas that illustrate growth and opportunity for women, and the sex toy industry is absolutely one of them. 50 years ago, the idea of a sexually independent woman masturbating and not needing a man to experience sexual pleasure was seen as threatening and labeled dirty.

What’s been really exciting with the rise of the sex-positivity movement, is the expansion of options and the increased accessibility to ways women can enhance and enjoy sex. What was once a hush-hush topic that polite ladies didn’t discuss, is now a no-holds-bar all-you-can-eat buffet ripe for some fun locker room talk. 

Unfortunately, women’s sexual pleasure is still not taken as seriously as it should be.

In America, people are way more comfortable talking about sex in a negative way, (sexual violence, trafficking, assault, STI’s) than we are comfortable having conversations about women’s sexuality, sexual empowerment, and sexual pleasure.

Can we talk about the orgasm gap for a minute? Because it’s a very real thing! Orgasm should be seen as a human right! Like healthcare is a human right– experiencing amazing orgasms is a human right. All women need to be having orgasms because almost all men are. 

A study by The Kinsey Institute found that women who use sex toys regularly have better sex lives, stronger orgasms, and are more likely to stay on top of their sexual health than women who don’t use them. So without further ado, we want to share a list of our favorite sex toys!!

10 Best Sex Toys for Women

Woamanizer Classic 2 – $129.00

The Essential Clitoral Stimulator.

If you haven’t experienced a toy that simulates receiving oral sex…then it is time. Simple and efficient, Womanizer CLASSIC 2 uses ground-breaking, original Pleasure Air technology to offer effortless orgasms in record time. And we do mean record time.

Online: Womanizer Starlet 3

womanizer liberty by Lily allen – $99.00

from: WOW Tech Group

This oral sex simulator was spearheaded by Lily Allen. It is small, handy and, thanks to its practical cover, a sexy companion for all your adventures. The new LIBERTY’s bright colors radiate exactly the power that we all need to stand up for ourselves and our sexual desires and to live them out. We can empower ourselves – with the active support of Lily and Womanizer.

Online: womanizer liberty by Lily allen

We-Vibe Unite – $99.00

from: WOW Tech Group

Use it alone or with your partner. We-Vibe Unite is worn during sex, stimulating the clitoris and G-spot simultaneously for mindblowing sensations and hands-free fun. This couple’s vibrator is based on the classic design that made We-Vibe famous. Plus: it’s rechargeable and remote-controlled, so it’s easy to intensify the sensation when things get heated.

Online: We-Vibe Unite

Touch by We-Vibe – $99.00

from: WOW Tech Group

Sometimes simple is best! We-Vibe Touch delivers intense vibrations in a small package, designed for sensual teasing or nestling between partners to spice up penetration. Waterproof, rechargeable, and packing 8 tantalizing vibration pattern modes, you’ll be longing for our Touch.

Online: Touch by We-Vibe

Bloom by We-Vibe – $119.00

from: WOW Tech Group

Think feel-good workout for your vagina! These vibrating Kegel balls support exercises that help strengthen your pelvic floor and can lead to stronger orgasms. With 10 vibration patterns and graduating sizes and weights, We-Vibe Bloom’s waterproof, fully rechargeable balls tone your PC muscles in the most pleasurable way!

Online: Bloom by We-Vibe

Nova 2 by We-Vibe – $99.00

from: WOW Tech Group

The ultimate vibrators for clitoral stimulation and penetration. The new and improved Nova flexes with you, keeping constant contact with your clitoris while stimulating your G-spot.

Online: Nova 2 by We-Vibe

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The Rose Clit Sucker- $34.99

The Rose Clit Sucker is the new sex toy that everyone’s talking about! This beautiful rose-shaped clit sucker delivers amazing sensations via little air puffs that envelop your clitoris. The sensation feels something like vibration and something like rhythmic tapping. However one might describe it, it’s an intense type of stimulation that brings some women to orgasm in seconds!

Online: Rose Clit Sucker

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The Magic Wand- $69.99

We love, love, love this toy! It’s a classic and works like a gem. The Magic Wand Original, formerly called The Hitachi Magic Wand is an electric vibrator with a long handle and a large, smooth, flexible head. The Magic Wand features two unrelentingly powerful speeds. It is perfect for clitoral stimulation. There are also lots of Hitachi wand attachments available to further enhance its versatility.

Online: Magic Wand

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Nipplettes Vibrating Nipple Clamps- $21.99

Nipplettes Vibrating Nipple Clamp

If you like nipple stimulation, you will absolutely love these Vibrating Nipple Clamps. The Vibrating Nipple Clamps are fully adjustable to fit, tease or torture your nipples. These clamps are rubber-coated, wireless and vibrate more powerfully than other nipple clamps we tested. We like these clamps because they’re cute, they’re powerful, and the rubber is seamless and comfortable.

The Vibrating Nipple Clamps are wireless, waterproof, and look as good as they feel. Experiment with the clamps to see what kind of pressure suits your mood. The vibration is activated with easy, push-button controls.

Online: Nipplettes

Closing Thoughts

Honestly, we haven’t even scratched the surface, when it comes to sex toys and women’s sexuality. These are the go-tos our open-minded sisters shared with us, and they are perfect for women looking to experiment. Don’t worry, we’ll circle back and talk about the varieties of fun stuff available out there, some of which you may never have even heard of.

It’s exciting to see more and more products coming out designed to specifically enhance women’s pleasure. Gone are the days of unfulfilling sex comprised of clumsy clit play followed by penetration and…done? Sex toys allow women to explore their own bodies, sensations and pleasure zones. Even if you don’t use them with partners (I highly recommend you do), they help you to understand your own pleasure, and what works for you better so that when you have sex, you can reach that orgasm you’ve been yearning for.

Sexual empowerment is an important part of women’s sexuality and the feminist movement. It’s true, women need to feel comfortable and able to talk about sexual trauma and abuse, but it’s also important for us to be open about sexual pleasure and our sensual drive. It’s time for us to shut down slut-shaming and the stereotypes attached to women who “dare” to enjoy sex and sexual exploration.

It’s time for us to have all the orgasms–and the really good ones too. Because like Kelli said, having incredible orgasms is our right. Or, at least it should be.

Now get out there and do some shopping.


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Annette Benedetti
Annette Benedetti
Annette is a writer, editor and photographer from Portland, OR. Her work appears in a variety of publications including Bust, Red Tricycle, Motherly and Domino. When she’s away from her desk she can be found teaching women yoga at wilderness retreats, exploring new cities across the states and hiking the trails at Mt. Rainier—one of her favorite places on earth.