Whether you love Valentine’s Day or deem it a ridiculous commercial holiday, there’s no denying that it gives partners a great excuse to turn up the heat in their sex lives. Don’t be the disappointment that comes home the day of with a wilting bouquet of roses and a box of grocery store chocolates. Get ahead of the game, and blow your sex-loving woman’s mind with a sexy gift that will keep giving her orgasms for days, months, or years to come.

Before you rush out that door to drop some dime on your dame, remember the person who declared that diamonds are a girl’s best friend had clearly never met a sexually empowered woman because if they had, they’d have known better. Luxurious sex toys, arousal lube, and sensual products are exactly what every sex-loving woman wants to wake up to or take to bed on Valentine’s Day.

I promise you, the woman you are banging right now wants more Os and in an effort to help you (and her) out, I have created a gift guide for women who love sex and it includes options for sex-enhancing gifts for women that you’ve likely not considered or even heard of yet.

From sexy toys and lube to lingerie, body products, and even sexy getaways, I have put together a list of the best sex gifts for her on Valentine’s Day that will give right back to you. Read on to find out more.

Valentine’s Day Gifts For Women Who Love Sex

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Slow Sex Experience Box

She will love this gift box! This selection tops my picks for best sex gifts for women because who doesn’t want to enjoy some slow sex? This erotic triad includes an oral sex balm, a clitoral balm, and a nipple play gel. Exactly what you need to slow things down and bring her to orgasm slow and sexy. $195

Jewels Tiger by Fun Factory

Some of the best sex gifts for her come from Fun Factory! The Tiger is one of them. This g-spot stimulator delivers powerful, penetrating, rumbling vibrations that will satisfy her in ways you never imagined. This vibrating dildo satisfies, with a design that offers deep, bass-tone vibration from the base to the tip. Curious about the TIGER’s ridges? They create a rippling sensation every time you move. And look at that color! She’ll fall in love

Cost: $139

Note: Use my discount code SELS20 for a 20% discount at checkout!

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Penis owners pay attention! Enhance her experience (and yours!) This innovative compact wearable vibrator/robotic cock ring vibrates all around the penis while stimulating the clitoris and vulva at the same time. This is the best sex gift for women who love sex and crave the incredibly romantic mutual orgasm! What could be more romantic for Valentine’s Day? Right now you can enjoy a steep 20% Off.


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MysteryVibe Crescendo 2

With 6 motors and bendable technology, unlike any other sex toy company, currently possesses, the Crescendo 2 gives the gift of all the types of orgasms you can think of. From blended orgasms to multiple orgasms to screaming orgasms. She will be “ooohing” and “ahhing” her appreciation soon after she opens this gift on Valentine’s Day morning.

You can currently get it at 20% Off.


Lady Bi By Fun Factory

This dual-motor vibrator provides deep, strong rumbling through the shaft and the clit stimulator is soft enough to keep your bean from getting too sensitive while providing sweet vibrations.

Note: Use my discount code SELS20 for a 20% discount at checkout!

ManCage 20 3.5 Inch Silicone Cock Cage In Black

Don’t look at me that way! You might be surprised by how much she’ll love unlocking your cock (or locking it up) on Valentine’s Day. Has she been curious about playing with male chastity? If so, here’s our guide to getting started, and straight from our guide to choosing the right cage, I offer this hot option. From Shots kink-ready collection, the ManCage 20 hands you and them a simple design that’s easy to get into, but not so easy to get out of (without permission, that is). In soft, sexy, temperature-sensitive black silicone, the 18 traps the entire shaft and tip in a smooth tamper-proof tube with only the smallest, teasingly inaccessible vents.


Yoni Washes

Goddess Detox Crystal Infused Yoni Washes

Pamper her pussy on Valentin’es Day! Sex Gode$$ Carnelian Crystal, Pu$$y Power Rose Quartz Crystal, and Wealthy Woman Citrine Crystal Infused Yoni & Vaginal Wash are all-natural feminine washes that sexually empowered women will adore. They come with real crystals in the bottle and they will leave your sex-loving woman’s clit tingling long after she steps out of the shower.


Horoscope Pleasure Ritual

When looking for sex gifts for women, finding something that is erotic and beautiful is a huge plus. Help her connect with her sexual energy and what turns her on with the Horoscope. Horoscope is a pleasure ritual kit with three sex gifts in one: A gemstone necklace, a warming clitoral balm & a finger vibe with 3 intensity and 7 vibes. 


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Kissable Massage Candle

This yummy gift will make her fall in love. It’s the perfect sex gift for women who love to have their senses teased and satisfied. Indulge in this soft caramel & sea salt flavored massage candle Black Friday sale


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This vitamin-rich oil, nourishes her skin and makes her feel rejuvenated. It is designed to naturally hydrate skin for full-body moisture. She will love the earthy scent with notes of black pepper & sandalwood. It is certified organic and can be applied to damp skin or used as a bath oil. It’s a spa in your bathroom.

Use Special Code SELS20 for 20% Off


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Say goodbye to yeast infections, organically. Momotaro Apotheca’s signature Salve is a soothing and cooling balm that melts into skin to instantly address vulvovaginal dryness, itching, and irritation. With a coconut and jojoba oil base, this salve helps protect her skin’s natural moisture barrier and protects her from everyday stressors and general irritation from sex, clothing, or exercise. When used regularly, this natural vitamin and antioxidant-rich topical safely works with her body to help balance pH. Soon it will part of her regular skincare routine.

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This sex gift for women helps them stay healthy with its organic ingredients and spa-like scents. Say goodbye to yeast infections and hello to soft, supple skin. Momotaro Apotheca’s signature Salve is a soothing and cooling balm that melts into the skin to instantly address vulvovaginal dryness, itching, and irritation. Momotaro’s Hydrosol’s all-natural formula is steam distilled and made from a gentle combination of aromatic botanicals to help address discomfort associated with yeast and bacterial infections, pH imbalance, and more. This water-soluble toning spray is perfect for a quick and cooling spritz post-period, shower, sweat, or sex. But don’t stop there, you can use it all over your body.


lelo SILA Cruise


You can read my full review covering why I love this toy here. Trust me…Give her the gift of pleasure air technology for Valentine’s Day! The SILA’s wide mouth encompasses the most stimulating vulva spots and locks in orgasms with the groundbreaking cruise control tech. This sex toy reacts to her body’s arousal and kicks in the suction right when you need it the most.


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UPKO Black Overbust Corset

The exquisite corset represents the sexual legacy of neo-classicism. The design is flexible to fit all body types. The corset perfectly fits the chest without gapping cups and the customized pattern highlights the exclusive waist-to-hip ratio.


Book a Temptations Cancun Resort Vacation

Go big or go home baby! If you are really looking for sex gifts for her that will have a real impact, why not take her on a sexy vacation? Temptation Cancun Resort provides a next-level fun-centric take on an adults-only, all-inclusive vacation. This dream couple’s sexuality retreat promises a hip vibe that is considered the hallmark of this beachfront resort. You will enjoy topless-optional areas, where the party is always raging and guests feel simultaneously invigorated and relaxed.

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Twenty-One Vibrating Diamond

When looking for sex gifts for women, finding something that is erotic and beautiful is a huge plus. Help her connect with her sexual energy and what turns her on with the Horoscope. Horoscope is a pleasure ritual kit with three sex gifts in one: A gemstone necklace, a warming clitoral balm & a finger vibe with 3 intensity and 7 vibes. 


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Maze H Harness

This is one of my favorite sex gifts for women who enjoy a little BDSM in the bedroom. Enjoy the corset feeling in this bondage-inspired harness. The perfect addition for her outfits or lingerie sets, plus it adds intensity to the bedroom games as it slides gorgeously over your bare skin.


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Magnifique · Waist Chain Jewelry

If you want to get your sex-loving woman jewelry for the holidays, this sexy piece will make her feel like the goddess she is! This waist chain highlights her best ass-et! You see what I did there?

We-Vibe Touch

This dream sex gift for women will have her squealing with delight for oh so many reasons. We-Vibe Touch delivers intense vibrations in a small package, designed for sensual teasing or nestling between partners to spice up penetration. It’s waterproof, rechargeable, and packs 8 tantalizing vibration pattern modes, which she’ll be longing for.


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Hot Octopuss Kurve

This is the ultimate sex gift for women who love deep rumbling orgasms. The Kurve reaches the O-Spot for an incredible O with deep treble and bass vibes. That’s right, she’ll be able to choose the kind of vibes she experiences with this soft but firm vibrator. You can get it now at 50% off! Use code COSY50.


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Ultimate Adult Boxes for Couples

There are a variety of options for best sex gifts for women but don’t dismiss a single box or subscription. The Ultimate Adult Box is a designer date night subscription box curated for couples who want to explore. Each box includes two premium sex toys, games, activities, and other sensual enhancers to really stimulate and complement your most intimate moments. Get ready to experiment on Valentine’s Day!

Starting at $55

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OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

If you want to give her a Valentine’s Day Gift that she will never forget, then the OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator is it. This sex toy delivers internal and external sensations that give her a chorus of sensations that will make her shout with pleasure. She will enjoy blended orgasms, multiple orgasms, and more. Oh…and that cute little controller means you can control how and when she comes on Valentine’s Day!


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LELO Enigma

Lelo ENIGMA™ is a luxurious dual-action sonic massager designed to titillate both the entire clitoris – its visible and invisible parts – and G-spot, for an orgasm so intense whoever gets this gift will think they’ve left this planet. It’s not only gorgeous to hold in your hand, driving this baby will be her favorite Valentine’s Day Activitie. Read my full review here.

Get it at 20% Off.



I could go on and on about how much I love the LELO IDA Wave, but you can read my full review here. Trust me, your sex-loving woman will thank you for this gift. Let her experience LELO’s patented WaveMotion™ technology and the blended orgasms it provides. If she’s a g-spot girl…she’s gonna get off again and again and again.


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