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15 Best Sex Gifts For Women

From toys to lingerie & sexy getaways, these are The best sex gifts for her.

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What better way is there to let that special woman in your life know how much you want her than by surprising her with a new sex toy? The person who declared that diamonds are a girl’s best friend had clearly never met a sexually empowered woman. Because if they had, they’d have known that sex toys are a woman’s best friend! Guaranteed, the woman you having sex with, making love to, or banging right now wants more Os (and by that, I mean orgasms.) And, in an effort to help you (and her) out, I have created a gift guide for women who love sex and it includes options for sex gifts for women that you’ve likely not considered or even heard of yet.

From sexy toys to lube, to lingerie and even sexy getaways, I have put together a list of the sex gifts for her that will give right back to you. Read on to find out more.

Gifts that Just Might Get You Laid

Gift Box Slow Sex

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She will love this gift box! This selection tops my picks for best sex gifts for women because who doesn’t want to enjoy some slow sex? This erotic triad includes an oral sex balm, a clitoral balm, and a nipple play gel. Exactly what you need to slow things down and bring her to orgasm slow and sexy. $40

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Tiger by Fun Factory

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Some of the best sex gifts for her come from Fun Factory! The Tiger is one of them. This g-spot stimulator delivers powerful, penetrating, rumbling vibrations that will satisfy her in ways you never imagined. This vibrating dildo satisfies, with a design that offers deep, bass-tone vibration from the base to the tip. Curious about the TIGER’s ridges? They create a rippling sensation every time you move this better-then-men toy in or out. So, you experience incredible sensations with every thrust, and without any extra effort.

Cost: $139

Note: Use my discount code SELS20 for a 20% discount at checkout!

Velvet Thruster Prime

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If your partner doesn’t have a thrusting toy, then put this is one of the best sex toy gifts you could give. The Velvet Thruster Prime is a custom dildo and thrusting vibrator that you can build to be as unique as her sexuality. A one-of-a-kind sex gift for her, you can mix and match shapes, sizes, colors, and accessories. This sex toy gives her the ability to have hands free sex when she’s alone…or when you’re there to watch.


Lady Bi By Fun Factory

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This sex toy gift will make her feel full (of love for you). A dual motor vibrator built to reach the P spot, the Lady Bi provides deep, strong rumbling through the shaft and the clit stimulator is soft enough to keep her bean from getting too sensitive while providing sweet vibrations. Penetrative masturbation helps keep vaginal walls strong and as you age, it keeps women from experiencing vaginal atrophy. I use this baby regularly. $#159

Note: Use my discount code SELS20 for a 20% discount at checkout!

Horoscope Pleasure Ritual

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When looking for sex gifts for women, finding something that is erotic and beautiful is a huge plus. Help her connect with her sexual energy and what turns her on with the Horoscope. Horoscope is a pleasure ritual kit with three sex gifts in one:

A necklace encasing her zodiac gemstone. 

An orgasmic warming-effect clitoral balm that sets the tone, increases pleasure, and enhances orgasm.  

A playful finger vibrator. Smooth, powerful, and discreet. It fits perfectly in her (or your) hand and, thanks to the semi-elastic band, she can hold it with just one finger. User-friendly, she can control all three intensities and seven vibration settings at the touch of a button. $40

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Book a Temptations Cancun Resort Vacation

Go big or go home baby! If you are really looking for sex gifts for her that will have a real impact, why not take her on a sexy vacation? Temptation Cancun Resort provides a next-level fun-centric take on an adults-only, all-inclusive vacation. This dream couple’s sexuality retreat promises a hip vibe that is considered the hallmark of this beachfront resort. You will enjoy topless-optional areas, where the party is always raging and guests feel simultaneously invigorated and relaxed.

Aer by Dame

When you’re looking for sex gifts for her, you have to consider clit suction toys. The Aer by Dame is a powerful clit sucking toy that gets the job done. I love this clit sucking toy because of its wide mouth. The Aer creates thrilling pulses of air and a soft seal around your clitoris, so you can go all the way, right away. 

If you haven’t experienced wave technology, now is the time. It creates rhythmic pulses of air that mimics the flutter of a tongue and the suction of a mouth—kinda. It literally goes down on you better than a man.

Cost: $95.00

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Twenty One Vibrating Diamond

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Ok…I take it back, maybe diamonds are a girl’s best friend. She will fall in love with this vibrating diamond the minute she lays eyes on it. Twenty One Vibrating Diamond is a unique, discreet, easy-to-use, silent, and pleasure-packed clit vibrator.  It offers the ultimate pleasure with the perfect size and shape. It is designed to provide precise stimulation, through its 7 patterns and 3 vibration intensities. An easy choice for our top picks for best sex gifts for women. $60

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Maze H Harness

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This is one of my favorite sex gifts for women who enjoy a little BDSM in the bedroom. Enjoy the corset feeling in this bondage-inspired harness. The perfect addition for her outfits or lingerie sets, plus it adds intensity to the bedroom games as it slides gorgeously over your bare skin. $60

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Maze Thin Handcuffs

If she likes jewelry, she’ll love these bracelets. Adorn her wrists with these bracelets. She can wear them with any outfit and no one will know better…except for you. They transform into what will become her favorite handcuffs for bondage fun in private. It’s one of the more elegant sex gifts for her. $40

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Maze Tassel Flogger

If your woman likes a little punishment with her pleasure, this flogger will quickly become her favorite choice for play in the bedroom. It’s both beautiful and delivers a variety of breathtaking sensations when in the right hands. This flogger makes it right to the top of our picks for best BDSM gifts for women. $35

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Slow Sex Experience Box 

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Show her you really care about her pleasure with the ultimate sexual pleasure set. This experience box holds all the “tools” she will need to connect with her pleasure and you. When you are looking for sex gifts for her, this cosmetic line redefines the meaning of the word “foreplay”. The Slow Sex Experience Box includes all 11 full-size Slow Sex products with a free Slow Sex manifesto tote bag and storage pouch to keep your favorites at hand. 

What you will find inside:

  • Hair and Skin Shimmer Dry Oil. 
  • Anal Play Gel
  • Finger Play Gel 
  • Oral Sex Balm 
  • Nipple Play Gel
  • Clitoral Balm
  • Full Body Massage
  • Warming Massage Oil
  • Intimate Solid Perfume
  • Mouthwatering Spray for Oral Sex
  • Oral Sex Strips
  • Cotton Canvas Totebag
  • Travel Pouch  


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Magnifique · Waist Chain Jewelry

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Let her show off one of her best Assets with this sensual piece of jewelry. All eyes will be on her…just like they should be when she dons this sensual gift. Then get her in bed and let her drive you wild. This gift is really just a give for both of you.


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Hyaluronic Water-Based Lubricant

When you are looking for sex gifts for her don’t forget the lube! And this isn’t just any lube. It is a medical-grade water-based lubricant with hyaluronic acid and a high molecular weight that works in the most superficial layers of your skin and tissue, creating a barrier of natural hydration. 

This lube will revitalize her intimate area with the moisturizing properties of hyaluronic acid. A formula that keeps her tissue well-lubricated and moist, improving hydration and elasticity.


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Njoy Pure Plug Medium Stainless Steel Butt Plug

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Listen, I get it! Not everyone is into butt play, and that’s ok! However, if you or your lady are interested in exploring and playing around in anus town, this butt plug is fantastic for beginner and intermediate couples alike, and it should definitely be up for consideration when you are looking for sex gifts for her. I love the sleek design and that it’s angled for smooth and pleasurable penetration. This gift makes for a great pick for gifts for gals who like to experiment. $109

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