Whether you’re decking the halls or dodging mistletoe, there’s no denying that the holiday season gives partners the perfect excuse to crank up the heat in their festive sex lives. Don’t be the buzzkill who stumbles home on Christmas day with a sad sack of candy canes and a last-minute ornament. Get ahead of the jingle bell curve and blow your sex-loving woman’s mind with a sexy gift that’ll have her ringing in orgasms for days, months, or even years to come.

I guarantee you, the woman you’re cozying up to by the fire wants more “Os” in her stocking, and to assist you (and her) on this festive quest, I’ve crafted a gift guide for women who love sex. It’s packed with options for sex-enhancing gifts that you probably haven’t even considered, let alone heard of yet.

From sexy toys and spicy lube to lingerie, body products, and even steamy getaways, I’ve curated the ultimate list of the best sex gifts for her on Christmas that’ll give right back to you. So, unwrap the secrets to a sizzling holiday season and discover more as we unwrap the naughty and nice gifts that’ll have you both on the naughty list— in the best way possible.

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Slow Sex Experience Box

Indulge in the art of slow seduction with the Slow Sex Experience from Bijoux Indiscrets—a sensual journey thoughtfully curated for intimate moments. This exquisite gift set invites you to explore the realms of pleasure with luxurious accessories, creating a holiday experience that’s both passionate and unforgettable. Elevate your connection and embrace the magic of unhurried intimacy with this beautifully crafted ensemble.

(Use Code Sheexploreslife20 for 20% Off) $195

Jewels Tiger by Fun Factory

Discover the perfect blend of pleasure and luxury with Fun Factory’s Jewels Tiger, a glamorous addition to your intimate moments. Unleash passion with this beautifully designed dual-action vibrator, combining elegant aesthetics with powerful performance. Elevate your holiday gifting with the seductive allure of Jewels Tiger, ensuring a season filled with unforgettable and sexy surprises.

(Use discount code SELS20 for a 20% discount) Cost: $139

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Penis owners pay attention! Enhance her experience (and yours!) This innovative compact wearable vibrator/robotic cock ring vibrates all around the penis while stimulating the clitoris and vulva at the same time. This sexy gift is perfect for people who love sex and crave the incredibly romantic mutual orgasm! What could be more romantic for Christmas? Right now you can enjoy a steep 20% Off.


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MysteryVibe Crescendo 2

With 6 motors and bendable technology, unlike any other sex toy company, currently possesses, the Crescendo 2 gives the gift of all the types of orgasms you can think of. From blended orgasms to multiple orgasms to screaming orgasms. She will be “ooohing” and “ahhing” her appreciation soon after she opens this gift on Christmas morning.


Lady Bi By Fun Factory

This dual-motor vibrator provides deep, strong rumbling through the shaft and the clit stimulator is soft enough to keep your bean from getting too sensitive while providing sweet vibrations.

(Use my discount code SELS20 for a 20% discount at checkout)

ManCage 20 3.5 Inch Silicone Cock Cage In Black

Don’t look at me that way! You might be surprised by how much she’ll love unlocking your cock (or locking it up) on Christmas (or New Years) Day. Has she been curious about playing with male chastity? If so, here’s our guide to getting started, and straight from our guide to choosing the right cage, I offer this hot option. From Shots kink-ready collection, the ManCage 20 hands you and them a simple design that’s easy to get into, but not so easy to get out of (without permission, that is). In soft, sexy, temperature-sensitive black silicone, the 18 traps the entire shaft and tip in a smooth tamper-proof tube with only the smallest, teasingly inaccessible vents.


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Elizabeth Soft Body Black

Introducing the Elizabeth Soft Body in sultry black from Bluebella—a perfect addition to your holiday gift list for those who appreciate the art of seduction. This exquisite lingerie piece combines luxurious lace with a daring cut, embracing the body in all the right places. Elevate the festivities with this sexy gift that seamlessly blends elegance and allure, making it an unforgettable present for someone special.


Horoscope Pleasure Ritual

When looking for sex gifts for women, finding something that is erotic and beautiful is a huge plus. Help her connect with her sexual energy and what turns her on with the Horoscope. Horoscope is a pleasure ritual kit with three sex gifts in one: A gemstone necklace, a warming clitoral balm & a finger vibe with 3 intensity and 7 vibes. 

Use Code SHEEXPLORESLIFE20 for 20% Off!

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Kissable Massage Candle

Ignite the flames of passion with the Soft Caramel and Sea Salt Massage Candle from Bijoux Indiscrets. This seductive gift combines the allure of candlelight with the intoxicating scent of sweet caramel and sea salt. As the wax melts into a warm, sensuous massage oil, you and your partner can indulge in a luxurious and intimate experience that’s perfect for a sexy holiday.

Use Code SHEEXPLORESLIFE20 for 20% Off!

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This vitamin-rich oil, nourishes her skin and makes her feel rejuvenated. It is designed to naturally hydrate skin for full-body moisture. She will love the earthy scent with notes of black pepper & sandalwood. It is certified organic and can be applied to damp skin or used as a bath oil. It’s a spa in your bathroom.

(Use Special Code SELS20 for 20% Off)

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This skincare product promises to keep her feeling sexy. Say goodbye to yeast infections, organically. Momotaro Apotheca’s signature Salve is a soothing and cooling balm that melts into skin to instantly address vulvovaginal dryness, itching, and irritation. With a coconut and jojoba oil base, this salve helps protect her skin’s natural moisture barrier and protects her from everyday stressors and general irritation from sex, clothing, or exercise. When used regularly, this natural vitamin and antioxidant-rich topical safely works with her body to help balance pH. Soon it will part of her regular skincare routine.

(Use Special Code SELS20 for 20% Off)

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This sex gift for women helps them stay healthy with its organic ingredients and spa-like scents. Say goodbye to yeast infections and hello to soft, supple skin. Momotaro Apotheca’s signature Salve is a soothing and cooling balm that melts into the skin to instantly address vulvovaginal dryness, itching, and irritation. Momotaro’s Hydrosol’s all-natural formula is steam distilled and made from a gentle combination of aromatic botanicals to help address discomfort associated with yeast and bacterial infections, pH imbalance, and more. This water-soluble toning spray is perfect for a quick and cooling spritz post-period, shower, sweat, or sex. But don’t stop there, you can use it all over your body.

Use Code SELS20 for 20% Off

lelo SILA Cruise


You can read my full review covering why I love this toy here. Trust me…Give her the gift of pleasure air technology for the holidays! The SILA’s wide mouth encompasses the most stimulating vulva spots and locks in orgasms with the groundbreaking cruise control tech. This sex toy reacts to her body’s arousal and kicks in the suction right when you need it the most.


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Marseille Wired Basque White

Indulge in the ultimate blend of elegance and allure with the Marseille Wired Basque from Bluebella, a seductive lingerie piece designed to elevate intimate moments. Crafted with meticulous detail, the luxurious white lace accentuates your curves while the wired cups provide the perfect lift. This sexy gift is not just lingerie; it’s a statement of confidence and sophistication, making it an ideal choice to ignite passion during the holiday season.


Book a Temptations Cancun Resort Vacation

Go big or go home baby! If you are really looking for a sexy gift hat will have a real impact, why not take her on a sexy vacation? Temptation Cancun Resort provides a next-level fun-centric take on an adults-only, all-inclusive vacation. This dream couple’s sexuality retreat promises a hip vibe that is considered the hallmark of this beachfront resort. You will enjoy topless-optional areas, where the party is always raging and guests feel simultaneously invigorated and relaxed.

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Twenty-One Vibrating Diamond

When looking for sex gifts for women, finding something that is erotic and beautiful is a huge plus. Help her connect with her sexual energy and what turns her on with the Horoscope. Horoscope is a pleasure ritual kit with three sex gifts in one: A gemstone necklace, a warming clitoral balm & a finger vibe with 3 intensity and 7 vibes. 

Use Code SHEEXPLORESLIFE20 for 20% Off!

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Maze H Harness

This is one of my favorite sex gifts for women who enjoy a little BDSM in the bedroom. Enjoy the corset feeling in this bondage-inspired harness. The perfect addition for her outfits or lingerie sets, plus it adds intensity to the bedroom games as it slides gorgeously over your bare skin.

Use Code SHEEXPLORESLIFE20 for 20% Off!

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Magnifique · Waist Chain Jewelry

If you want to get your sex-loving woman jewelry for the holidays, this sexy piece will make her feel like the goddess she is! This waist chain highlights her best ass-et! You see what I did there?

Use Code SHEEXPLORESLIFE20 for 20% Off!

We-Vibe Touch

This dream sex gift for women will have her squealing with delight for oh so many reasons. We-Vibe Touch delivers intense vibrations in a small package, designed for sensual teasing or nestling between partners to spice up penetration. It’s waterproof, rechargeable, and packs 8 tantalizing vibration pattern modes, which she’ll be longing for.

Use Code EXPLORES15 for %15 discount

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Hot Octopuss Kurve

This is the ultimate sex gift for women who love deep rumbling orgasms. The Kurve reaches the O-Spot for an incredible O with deep treble and bass vibes. That’s right, she’ll be able to choose the kind of vibes she experiences with this soft but firm vibrator. You can get it now at

$99.95 Use code CROWN for 40% off

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Ultimate Adult Boxes for Couples

There are a variety of options for best sex gifts for women but don’t dismiss a single box or subscription. The Ultimate Adult Box is a designer date night subscription box curated for couples who want to explore. Each box includes two premium sex toys, games, activities, and other sensual enhancers to really stimulate and complement your most intimate moments. Get ready to experiment on Christmas Day!

Starting at $55

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OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator

If you want to give her a Valentine’s Day Gift that she will never forget, then the OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator is it. This sex toy delivers internal and external sensations that give her a chorus of sensations that will make her shout with pleasure. She will enjoy blended orgasms, multiple orgasms, and more. Oh…and that cute little controller means you can control how and when she comes on Valentine’s Day!

Use code Annette10% for 10% off!

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LELO Enigma

LELO ENIGMA™ is a luxurious dual-action sonic massager designed to titillate both the entire clitoris – its visible and invisible parts – and G-spot, for an orgasm so intense whoever gets this gift will think they’ve left this planet. It’s not only gorgeous to hold in your hand, but driving this baby will be her favorite holiday activity ever. Read my full review here.



I could go on and on about how much I love the LELO IDA Wave, but you can read my full review here. Trust me, your sex-loving woman will thank you for this gift. Let her experience LELO’s patented WaveMotion™ technology and the blended orgasms it provides. If she’s a g-spot girl…she’s gonna get off again and again and again.


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