Cuffing season is here! If you haven’t found your boo for the cold weather months yet, now’s the time to do it. So hop on those dating apps or hire a matchmaker and get to it. If you are new to cuffing season dating and aren’t quite sure about how to go about it, what the rules are, and cuffing season etiquette check out the full guide to cuffing season and then get ready for the fun stuff: lighting up long, slow, sensual nights with romantic candles that will ensure you’ll have your hands all over your new bae in no time at all
Believe it or not, there are sexy candles for every cuffing season situation you could possibly imagine. From romantic candles that come with a complete date night setup to sensual candles that will have you knocking boots in no time at all, I’ve put together a list of the best sexy candles for every type of cuffing season encounter.
Read on to find the best cuffing season candle for you.
10 Romantic Candles for Every Cuffing Season Occasion
Sensual Massage with Seagrape
Cuffing season is all about enjoying some skin-to-skin connection, especially when it gets chilly. Seagrape has created a massage candle that makes hands-on fun feel amazing. Made with soy wax, shea butter, avocado oil, and essential oils for scent, this romantic candle sets the mood and softens skin while you enjoy a warm wax rub down.
Named dark and sexy for a reason, this massage candle is scented with ylang-ylang and black pepper and is 100% vegan.
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Melt Together with Lelo
There’s no time to waste when warming up to your new cuffing season boo. You’ve only got a couple of months before you might be reassessing your seasonal love. Set the mood and melt together with flickering light from this sensual Vanilla & Creme De Cacao romantic candle by Lelo. Lelo is known for making luxury products that light couples on fire and this candle will have you two on fire before you know it. Made from all-natural soy wax, shea butter, and apricot kernel oil, the lightly scented wax melts into an exquisite pool of luxurious massage oil that can be dripped, caressed, and stroked into hungry skin.
A Spa Day Experience with Jennifer Adams Candles
This woman-owned company known as the source for resort-quality bedding and home decor has created natural coconut wax candles that are perfect for a romantic cuffing season date night. These candles come in modern-looking glass holders. They are colorless and you can choose from a variety of scents including the following:
Embrace: Scents of Siberian Fir, Cinnamon Bark, and Golden Raspberry
Lux: Scents of Coconut Milk, Sandalwood, and Amber
Encounters: Scents of Santal, Leather, and Vanilla
Rejuvenate: Scents of Green Tea, Lemon, and Jasmine
Restore: Scents of Lavender, Thyme, and Cedarwood
I had the opportunity to experience Restore, a romantic candle with a spa-like scent that when paired with the perfect glow produced by the flicker wick made for a relaxing and seductive evening. I absolutely loved this scent.
Highlights: I love earthy, spicy scents, so I can’t deny being incredibly drawn to this brand, especially for the holiday and cuffing season. This romantic candle burns for up to 55 hours! That’s a good burn time. They are also non-toxic and made right here in the US!
These romantic candles come in 5 scents, double or single wicked, and in two sizes.
Foreplay Forever with Lovehoney Oh!
Some might say that foreplay is a woman’s best friend. If that’s true then this vanilla massage candle is your new bestie. The vanilla scent warms up a room and heats up the mood. Then you just drizzle the warmed wax onto your cuffing season partner’s hot bod and have at it. Of course, they’ll return the favor and the rest is up to you!
This massage candle is infused with 6 essential oils for a nourishing massage. You get 15% off when you use my special code EXPLORES15 at checkout
Intimacy Outside with Backyard Candles
Baby, it may be cold outside, but that shouldn’t stop you from having exciting sex in the great outdoors experience. These gorgeous coconut shell candles bring the outdoors inside so you can enjoy the autumnal beauty even when it’s too cold or rainy to go out and hook up. These handmade candles are created with all-natural soy wax and cotton or wood wicks. They include Pure therapeutic-grade essential oils such as citronella and lemongrass to help keep the bugs away. Bonus: these candles are up-cycled from real coconut shells that would otherwise be discarded.
Get Lost in Rustic Romance with Bee Inspired
This woman-owned company helped me add rustic romance to my home. I’m talking about the kind of knee-buckling steaminess you only find in a good romance novel. Their jelly jar soy candles are hand-poured and made with 100% American-grown soy wax. There’s no surprise here that these artisan-crafted farm-to-home candles are phthalate-free and clean burning. But, their scent was a delightful surprise! Their fragrance fills a space, softening the moment for some sensual time. Made in reusable containers, the candles come in a variety of scents including:
Red Ruby Grapefruit
Nectar + Honey
Autumn Harvest and more
These candles create a space where cuffing season romance can bloom. They have a burn time of approximately 30 hours, and if you want to surprise your new boo, they are perfect for gifting. Best of all, when you gift them, this company gives back by gifting you a small self-care gift and donating a portion of the proceeds to their non-profit partners.
Party Starter with House of Wise
Some cuffing season relationships are made from fast, lusty friendships. So get the party started with an instant intimate atmosphere created by this candle with its unique blend of essential oils and natural soy wax. Scented with pepperwood, black cashmere, and cardamom, you’ll have your lover quivering in anticipation. With over 40 hours of burn time, you’ll have plenty of time to unlock your innermost desires and explore!
Date Night In A Candle By Nose Best Candles
Nose Best is a POC, Queer, and Woman-led candle start-up born in Harlem during quarantine and moved to Bushwick Brooklyn in 2021. You know I love sex-positive products and these candles are certainly that! They help you and your cuffing season partner heat things up quickly, and let’s be honest, cuffing season is brief so there’s no time to waste.
Nose Best candles provide a multi-sensory experience with each hand-poured, soy wax candle. Held in jars labeled with fun names like Send Nudes, Safe Word, and Bone Daddy; these candles give off incredible fragrances that somehow match their name (Mountain Daddy made me swoon). Additionally, each label contains a QR code that takes you to a matching Spotify list and a cocktail recipe! So, you basically get a complete date night in one candle.
Hot Witch Romp with Sea Witch Botanicals
Autumn is officially hot-witch-season, and cuffing season is the perfect time to get witchy. Put a spell on your potential new bae with an all-natural essential oil candle from Sea Witch Botanicals. Hand-poured and ethereal these candles are scented with essential oils and plant-derived waxes. Sea Witch candles are vegan and don’t contain paraffin wax (plastics) or fragrance oils. The wide wooden wicks give a beautiful glow, you’ll enjoy an even burn all the way to the bottom.
The approximate burn time is 30 to 60 hours and the candles themselves make a beautiful art piece for autumnal house decor
Shake Your Beautiful Bootie with CTOAN Candles
I can’t express how much I love these sexy, body-positive candles. They come in all shapes and sizes like bodies and celebrate diversity and the LGBTQ+ community. Light them up and celebrate your own unique gorgeous self. Put on some music and shake your beautiful bootie for your lucky new boo. Bonus: $2 from every candle sold will be donated to My Block, My Hood, My City, a Chicago non-profit that shows underprivileged kids the world and opportunities outside their neighborhoods.