Buy Lingerie from These Inclusive Brands (instead of VS) this Valentine’s Day

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Victoria’s Secret Vs Third Love

With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, love and sex are on everyone’s mind. Perhaps you want to do something special to spice up your love life, or maybe you just want to enjoy feeling extra-sexy. One awesome way to do both, is by slinking into some super sexy lingerie–and we are here to support you. But before you head out to shop at your local Victoria’s Secret store, we’d like to encourage you to consider other brands that are inclusive.

The following are the reasons why we think you should take a moment to read our Victoria’s Secret vs. Better Lingerie write up before you shop for lingerie this Valentine’s Day.

This is the letter I want to write to Victoria Secret:

Victoria’s Secret Vs. Inclusive Lingerie Brands

Dear Victoria’s Secret,

Fuck off.


Annette Benedetti

Simple and to the point. Why waste words on a garbage company that built an empire with a foundation that depends on the survival of misogyny and sexism? ThirdLove said it best in a letter published in New York Times to Victoria’s Secret’s Chief Marketing Officer, Ed Razek, “You market to men and sell a male fantasy to women…it’s time to stop telling women what makes them sexy — let us decide. ” 

The letter was written in response to Razek’s transphobic and fatphobic comments made to Vogue during an interview that drew an instant angry response from…well…everyone who values women and inclusivity. But to be honest, his comments were just the nail in the coffin for me.

Victoria’s Secret built its success off of peddling unrealistic beauty standards to the masses, and then upped its efforts with its PINK line, which was designed to draw young girls in—much like a pedophile.

Forget functional, if the company had its way, no young girl or adult woman would dare think about putting on a pair of underwear or a bra without making sure it was sexy first.

So, in my strong opinion, it’s time for women to tell Victoria’s Secret to take its toxic lingerie and tacky perfumes and fuck off.

Awesome Alternatives to Victoria’s Secret

This Valentine’s Day, you can fill your closet with sexy, functional and fun lingerie without an ounce of guilt. We’ve pulled together a list of lingerie brands that are awesome alternatives to Victoria’s Secret. They are woman owned or woman run or dedicated to representing all sizes and ethnicities on their sites and promotional materials.

The following are lingerie businesses that will have you feeling sexy for Valentine’s Day without the guilt associated with giving VS money.

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photo: via ThirdLove fb

Let’s start with the organization that stood up to VS. Launched in 2013, this awesome company is credited with the invention of the half-cup size (Yay!). Along with filling their website with images of women of all sizes, they make functional, comfortable, and beautiful underwear, bras, lounge wear and nightwear that offers an easy fit for every woman.  Hate going to the store to try on bras? ThirdLove has a mobile app that allows you to size yourself at home. What’s not to love about this company?

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photo: via Adore Me FB by Ashanna Bri

Adore Me

Known for its inclusive sizes and representation, Adore me has some seriously hot lingerie for every season. From bras and panties to corsets and teddies, there is something for everyone and every occasion. What I like the most is that I can see some of my favorite pieces modeled by women of every size, which makes making an informed purchase easy. You can even sign up to receive a monthly box delivery to your house.

photo: via Playful Promises fb
Playful Promises

This London-based lingerie brand has some seriously steamy pieces. They mix quirky, directional design with all things playful, flirty and even a little bit dirty. From edgy to adorable, you can find almost anything you are looking for for your brand of sexy. One of things we love most about this brand is their Curve collection. They create amazing options for bodies of all sizes!

photo: via Lonely Girl FB


“For women who wear lingerie as a love letter to themselves” -Helene Morris, Lonely Designer.

A tagline we couldn’t resist. This New Zealand-based company is bent on fostering a sense of positive body image in those who wear its product. Casting off traditional marketing practices, Lonely leans on the Lonely Girls Project which is a journal featuring women from all over the world donning items from Loney.

Lonely sells lingerie, swimwear, clothing, and even fragrances. You never have to step foot in a gaudy VS store again!

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photo: via Neon Moon fb

Neon Moon

The women at Neon Moon ask, “Isn’t it fucked up how an industry that exists for women, isn’t actually for women?”

Why yes it is, Neon Moon!

“We’re taking a stand against this bullshit by making high-quality lingerie for all women.”

We are in!

This inclusive brand sells itself on the tagline “by badass women, for badass women,” and their products reflect their conviction. Just a quick scroll through the Knicker section of their website reveals models with all body types and cultural backgrounds, and tons of cool and comfortable looking pieces. Along with bras and knickers, they sell t-shirts and tote bags.

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photo: via True & Co fb

True & Co:

This company boasts a community of women determined to make bras that women love, and they are succeeding. With comfort as a focal point, True&Co launched their True Body Collection, which features wire-free bras with a smooth, sleek fit and all the support a woman could ask for. Made out of soft, stretchy material, many of the items offer extra coverage without leaving lines under your clothing.

Cool True&Co fact: products and improvements are based on the feedback of millions of women.

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photo: via Knix fb


The creators of Knix have one goal, and one goal only: to make every woman feel more comfortable in their own skin. Who couldn’t get on board with that? In an effort to make their products delightful to wear, they’ve focused their efforts on creating wire-free bras and what they call functional underwear. Women who wear their products get to enjoy a chafe-free, seamless experience while sporting some pretty cool looking intimate wear. Don’t forget to check out their leakproof underwear for your period. They promise a worry-free week for every woman who wears them.

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photo: via Tomboy X fb

Tomboy X

Let’s face it— most lingerie and intimate apparel companies base their designs on outdated definitions of what it means to be feminine or masculine. It’s fair to say that many people are fluid in their sexuality and the modern woman may feel feminine in a dress one day and super sexy in a ribbed tank top and jeans the next. We need underwear that’s as flexible as our sensuality. Enter Tomboy X. This awesome company has created underwear and bra designs that are comfortable, cool and perfect for your tomboy days (especially if you have them every day.) We LOVE their bralettes and boy shorts. But you really can’t go wrong with any of their items.

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One Reply to “Buy Lingerie from These Inclusive Brands (instead of VS) this Valentine’s Day”

  • Hello, I was so excited when I saw the title of this article but I was a little disappointed at the lack of inclusivity in sizes of these brands. Particularly with cup sized bras, the highest they go up to is a G cup (UK or I cup US) and all assume that large cup size = large back size. As a UK size 32J (32M us) which is not an uncommon size, I would love to see cute and comfortable underwear like this available to more than just very slim or small busted women.

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